What the questionnaire asks
Practice, not labels. Here is the form as it stands today — every section, every question, every answer you can pick.
A label like “Christian” says little about a life. So the form asks how faith is actually lived: which church you attend and how often, what you do about fasting, whether you want marriage or someone to text with — and the same for family, values and everyday habits. The people you meet answered the same questions.
10 sections and 88 questions at present. This page reads them from the same registry the form uses, so what you see here is what a new member is asked.
Personal Information
Basic information about yourself
- Desired traits in a partnerrequired
- Free text
- About merequired
- Free text
About Me
Personal details and characteristics
- Marital statusrequiredyou choose who sees the answer
- Never married
- Divorced
- Widowed
- Marriage annulled
- Ethnicityyou choose who sees the answer
- Caucasian/White
- African American
- Hispanic/Latino
- Asian
- Middle Eastern
- Slavic/Eastern European
- Mixed
- Other
- Do you have children?required
- No children
- 1 child
- 2 children
- 3 children
- 4 or more children
- Faithrequired
- Orthodox Christian
- Catholic
- Protestant / Evangelical
- Other Christian
- Spiritual, not religious
- Traditional values (not religious)
- Exploring faith
- Prefer not to say
- Educationrequired
- High School
- Some College
- Associate's Degree
- Bachelor's Degree
- Master's Degree
- Doctorate
- Trade School
- Name day saintyou choose who sees the answer
- One answer
- Name day monthyou choose who sees the answer
- One answer
- Height (cm)you choose who sees the answer
- A number
- Weightyou choose who sees the answer
- Under 100 lbs
- 100-120 lbs
- 120-140 lbs
- 140-160 lbs
- 160-180 lbs
- 180-200 lbs
- 200+ lbs
Location
Where you live
- Do you have a disability?you choose who sees the answer
- Several answers
- Open to partner with disability?you choose who sees the answer
- Several answers
Spiritual Life
Your faith and religious practice
- Purpose of registrationrequired
- Looking for marriage
- Is your spiritual life active?required
- Yes
- Doing my best
- Still learning
- Not really
- Profession and current workrequired
- Free text
- What is the meaning of life for you?required
- Free text
- How often do you attend church services?you choose who sees the answer
- Every Sunday
- 2-3 times per month
- Once a month
- Several times a year
- Rarely
- Which parish do you attend?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Your attitude towards fasting?you choose who sees the answer
- Strict (full Church rules)
- Moderate
- Minimal
- Learning
- How often do you read Scripture?you choose who sees the answer
- Daily
- Weekly
- Sometimes
- Rarely
- How many children do you want?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes, I want children
- Maybe, not sure yet
- No, I don't want children
- Already have enough
- Baptismal name (if different)you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Jurisdictionyou choose who sees the answer
- OCA
- ROCOR
- Greek
- Antiochian
- Serbian
- Romanian
- Bulgarian
- Georgian
- Carpatho-Russian
- Albanian
- Catechumen
- Other Canonical
Lifestyle
Daily habits and lifestyle choices
- How often do you drink alcohol?required
- Never
- Rarely (few times a year)
- Socially (special occasions)
- Monthly
- Weekly or more
- Do you enjoy being alone?required
- Yes
- Sometimes
- No
- What activities interest you most?required
- Free text
- Interest in occultism (horoscopes, fortune-telling)?required
- No
- In the past
- Occasionally curious
- Smoking?you choose who sees the answer
- Never smoked
- Quit smoking
- Socially
- Regularly
- Daily time with TV/computer/phone?required
- Free text
- Do you play video games?you choose who sees the answer
- Never
- Rarely
- Regularly
- How would you rate your work capacity?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
Personality
Character traits and self-reflection
- Are you an optimist or pessimist?required
- Optimist
- Realist
- Pessimist
- What qualities do you value most in people?required
- Free text
- Who is your role model?required
- Free text
- Are you punctual?you choose who sees the answer
- Always on time
- Usually punctual
- Sometimes late
- Often late
- Do you love order?you choose who sees the answer
- Very much
- Moderately
- Relaxed about it
- How emotional are you?you choose who sees the answer
- Very emotional
- Moderate
- Calm/Reserved
- Do you like teasing others?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes, playfully
- Sometimes
- No
- Do you stand up for yourself?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes, always
- Depends on situation
- Rarely
- Do you love yourself?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes
- Working on it
- Not really
- Your main strengthsyou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Your main weakness right nowyou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
Values & Beliefs
What matters to you
- Is church wedding important to you?required
- Required/Mandatory
- Preferred but not required
- Optional
- Your view on cohabitation before marriage?required
- Against - only after marriage
- Only after engagement
- Acceptable before marriage
- What do you expect from marriage?required
- Joint salvation
- Building a family
- Life partnership
- Companionship
- How important is material wealth in family?required
- Significant
- Moderate importance
- Not important
- Your view on gender roles in family?you choose who sees the answer
- Husband is head of family
- Equal partnership
- Flexible/situational
- What is unacceptable in a partner?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- What could you not forgive?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- What do you regret most?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Favorite quote or sayingyou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
Interests
Hobbies and favorite things
- Interests/Hobbiesrequired
- Travel
- Reading
- Music
- Sports
- Cooking
- Art
- Gardening
- Crafts/DIY
- Nature/Hiking
- Favorite booksyou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Favorite moviesyou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Favorite musicyou choose who sees the answer
- Classical
- Church/Byzantine
- Rock
- Pop
- Country
- Jazz
- Varied/All genres
- Musical instruments you playyou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Do you consider yourself creative?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes
- Somewhat
- Not really
- How often do you read books?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- What sports do you practice?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
Physical
Physical characteristics
- Eye coloryou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Do you have tattoos?you choose who sees the answer
- No
- Yes, small/discrete
- Yes, visible
- Do you take care of your health?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
- Do you enjoy an active lifestyle?you choose who sees the answer
- Free text
Dating Preferences
What you are looking for
- Acceptable age differenceyou choose who sees the answer
- Up to 5 years
- Up to 10 years
- Up to 15 years
- Age doesn't matter
- Open to partner with children?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes, I'm open to it
- Depends on circumstances
- No
- Acceptable height differenceyou choose who sees the answer
- One answer
- Would you relocate for partner?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes, willing to relocate
- Maybe, depends on circumstances
- No, prefer to stay
- Does partner's education matter?you choose who sees the answer
- Important
- Somewhat
- Doesn't matter
- Partner's religious views?you choose who sees the answer
- Same faith only
- Any Christian
- Open to others
- How long online before meeting?you choose who sees the answer
- A few weeks
- A few months
- No rush
- Criminal record?you choose who sees the answer
- No
- Yes
- Prefer not to say
- Canonical obstacles to marriage?you choose who sees the answer
- No
- Yes
- Not sure
- Intimate past?you choose who sees the answer
- No (virgin)
- Yes
- Prefer not to say
- Accept partner with intimate past?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes
- Depends
- No
- Marriage is for life?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes, for life
- I hope so
- Depends
- Can you cook?you choose who sees the answer
- Yes
- Learning
- Basic
- No
- Do you have pets?you choose who sees the answer
- No
- Cat
- Dog
- Other
- Multiple pets
- Foreign languages you speakyou choose who sees the answer
- English
- Spanish
- Russian
- Ukrainian
- Greek
- Arabic
- French
- German
- Portuguese
- Italian
- Romanian
- Serbian
- Bulgarian
- Polish
- Georgian
- Armenian
- Hebrew
- Chinese
- Japanese
- Korean
- Vietnamese
- Hindi
- Turkish
- Farsi (Persian)
- Other
- Place of birthyou choose who sees the answer
- Free text
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